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Oregon mom reunited with son after father returns to U.S.

Fortunately, cases of alleged international child abduction by a parent are rare enough that they make headlines when they do occur. But these cases happen often enough that there are international organizations that work with authorities here in the U.S. and their colleagues in the country where the child has been taken to ensure the child's return. This process is often slow and emotionally difficult for the parent left behind, making it especially heartwarming when a reunion between parent and child occurs.

An Oregon woman enjoyed such a reunion on May 16 when she flew to San Francisco to pick up her son, whose father is accused of taking him to New Zealand in December 2010 in violation of a child custody agreement. Also arriving in San Francisco that morning was the father, whom police arrested on a charge of first-degree custodial interference. He is expected to be extradited to Oregon to face the charge there.

Couples who separate usually get a divorce later

It is common for couples whose marriage is in trouble to want to avoid beginning divorce proceedings right away. Many couples in Clackamas County choose to try a legal separation first. A legal separation allows each spouse to "take a break" and establish separate residences while still leaving open the possibility that they will get back together. For some people whose beliefs look down on divorce, separation is a way to effectively end the marriage while remaining legally married.

But the longer a separation lasts, the more likely that it will turn into a final break. That is the conclusion of a new study that finds that 79 percent of separated couples eventually get a divorce.

Going once, going twice ... divorced! Auctions help settle assets

While the majority of couples going through divorce in Oregon are able to reach an agreement on how to divide personal property when negotiating a financial settlement, some couples find that neither spouse can agree on who will get to keep, say, an antique grandfather clock or the wife's wedding ring. With neither side able to live with the idea of the ex having some item, many divorcing couples are turning to auctions to sell off the items as a form of compromise.

Sometimes, judges order a couple's items to be auctioned off when a couple's divorce is dragging on over disagreements over how to divide them, or the couple decides they would rather not keep things that remind them of their former marriage.

5 top celebrity child support orders

Supermodel Linda Evangelista has settled her child support dispute with the father of her son, a billionaire fashion mogul. The settlement came four days after trial began over whether the father should pay $46,000 per month in support to Evangelista to provide their 5-year-old son's expenses, which Evangelista said includes 24-hour nanny service, personal drivers, armed bodyguards and a separate apartment for play dates with his friends.

Details of the May 7 settlement were not made public. While the compromise likely involves the father paying less than the $46,000 Evangelista originally asked for, he probably will be paying something close to that amount, which would put the agreement toward the top of celebrity child support orders. A recent news report about the child support settlement mentions several large child support orders paid by celebrities in recent years. Here are some of them:

18 years later, father arrested for violating child custody order

A 49-year-old man is learning that officials in Washington state will pursue a charge of interfering with child custody aggressively, even 18 years after the charge was first filed. The man is currently in jail, facing accusations that he violated a child custody agreement with his former wife when he took his son to Mexico in 1994.

There are few details about how the man was arrested on April 28, but an article about the case notes that he has also been charged with driving with a suspended or revoked license. A prosecutor said it is possible that police stopped his vehicle and discovered the old warrant in their database.

Retreat to provide support for people with custody of grandchildren

When children grow up, move out of the house and begin their adult lives, most parents do not expect to spend a lot of time changing diapers, attending parent-teacher conferences or reminding a preteen to clean his or her room ever again. One Multnomah County woman certainly did not expect to take over custody of a child. "When you raise your own family, you think that's it. You don't think that you will be doing it all again," the woman said.

But sometimes circumstances change older people's plans. For the woman, that happened when her 9-year-old grandson asked to move in with her and her husband. The boy's home life was unstable due to a father in prison and a mother suffering from chemical dependency.

Former Yahoo executive settles ugly divorce

No outside expert can say for certain whether an Oregon couple who is going through a divorce is in a position to take advantage of mediation to settle their asset division. Ultimately, each divorcing couple knows best whether their relationship is still civil enough that they could successfully work with a mediator to split up assets such as the family home, investment accounts and vehicles.

Sometimes it looks like a couple will never be able to sit down and work out a settlement, but then at the last minute manages to do so. A recent example of this is the divorce of the former president of Internet search engine company Yahoo Inc. Prior to April 23, when the executive announced she had reached a financial settlement with her husband and finalized their divorce, the couple had spent years trading accusations of infidelity and drug use. The husband even claimed that the wife bugged one of their homes to spy on him.

Five pricy celebrity divorces

Though the U.S. has no royalty, many of us like to follow the personal lives of show business stars, professional athletes and other celebrities as intensely as British people track their royal family's ups and downs. People in Lake Oswego know that one of the most popular sorts of celebrity gossip stories is when a star gets a divorce. Perhaps the attraction to learning about the end of a celebrity marriage is that it provides a glimpse into the lifestyles the famous lead -- and how much money it can cost a movie star to get out of a marriage that is no longer working.

Of course, while most divorces require some division of assets, many celebrities have a great deal more wealth than the average person. This means that several celebrity divorces include eye-popping financial settlements. Here are five of the largest celebrity divorce settlements:

Bad communication can lead to divorce

A recent study focused on what specific problems can result in an initially happy marriage ultimately ending in divorce. Researchers concluded that major factors included a breakdown in communication between the couple, verbal aggression by either one spouse against the other or mutually, and extreme pessimism unjustified by actual circumstances.

Researchers tracked a total of 136 couples, all of whom initially stated that they were happy and satisfied in the first four years. Over a decade, they spoke to each spouse separately from time to time to attempt to gauge the level of satisfaction, commitment, level of stress, and amount of support they believed they were getting from their spouse, as well as other factors such as type of personality and ability to overcome problems.

Bill to stop alimony for those convicted of raping spouse passes

The case of a woman who was ordered to pay spousal support to her ex-husband despite the fact that he was found guilty of sexually assaulting her has inspired a bill in the woman's home state to automatically prohibit similar cases in the future. Lawmakers in California's State Assembly passed the measure unanimously on April 12. If enacted, the bill would prevent family law courts from awarding alimony to spouses who have been convicted of violent sex crimes against the would-be payer.

Readers of this Oregon family law blog may recall our March 28 post, in which we discussed the case that led to the legislation. The woman, a successful financial analyst, said her husband forced her to have sex by attacking her and threatening to kill her. The husband was convicted of rape and sent to prison, and the woman divorced him.

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